Monday, January 07, 2019

No, you can't relate

Donald J. Trump says he can relate to government workers who are either furloughed without pay, or being forced to work without pay.

This is one of the most egregious lies he's told in the more than 7,000 that have come out of his mouth since he was inaugurated.  That's because in his twisted mind, his need to find sources to borrow money from to fund his business ventures is the same as someone who cannot pay their rent or buy food because of HIS government shutdown.

CNN spoke to a number of government employees (and a few of their spouses) about what they are having to do.

A Coast Guard wife talked about how she considered returning her son's Christmas gifts.

A woman who was furloughed from her job at HUD talked about how she has to worry every day about if there is enough food in her house.

A man who has worked for the TSA for six years says that his family will run out of money at the end of January and the family's house could be lost.

A woman who is a contract employee as a janitor at the Department of Agriculture is furloughed and because she is a contract workers, she won't be paid for the missed hours at all.  She is 71 and needs the money from her contract job to make ends meet.

Then there is the irony of what is going on at federal prisons.  At the Allenwood Federal Prison complex in Pennsylvania, January 4th was payday.  For the inmates.  Not for their guards.  800 of the 850 corrections officers who work at Allenwood are working without pay during the shutdown.  The other 50 are being paid because the funding for their salaries was part of the federal budget that was passed into law in the other appropriations bills.

Donald Trump cannot relate to the problems HIS shutdown is causing the hundreds of thousands of families where someone has been furloughed or is working without pay.

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Ellen DeGeneres is an icon.  A person who broke through barriers.  An extraordinary talent on multiple levels.  I'm a fan.

But she is not the spokesperson for the entirety of the LGBTQ community.  I have no issue with her decision to call the Academy and advocate for giving the hosting gig back to Kevin Hart.

I do have an issue with her summarily dismissing those who are critical of the past comments of Kevin Hart as "haters and trolls."  That's just not the case.  Here are just some of the responses to Ellen.













The experience of every member of a community is unique.  LGBTQ is a very broad group and no one individual is fully cognizant of the reality of the experiences of every member of that community.  Everyone in that community is unique because they are not just LGBTQ.  They are men, women, of different races, socio-economic grouping and so on.

Ellen's life experience is not the same as that of Wanda Sykes or Robin Roberts.  Or that of Lee Daniels or Jason Collins.

Her tweet in response to the backlash is here:




She is right.  We need to keep talking.  Without dismissing people who feel they have a legitimate grievance as "haters and trolls."